Finding true love online has always been debatable.

Some say; you can’t fall in love with a total stranger. Well, no matter where you meet someone, initially they are a stranger. There is no way around that.

When finding love online, you have to approach it differently.

Take your time...do not let your loneliness force you to rush into a relationship blindly.

If you do? You will be sorry...

Ask subtle questions...”are you close to your family?” If their entire family has disowned them, there is probably a very good reason. Don’t overlook this bit of information.

“Do you see your children often?” If the response is no...and they go on a verbal tirade about how unfair the family court laws are...and if they had their way, they wouldn’t pay a dime! He could be telling you, he doesn’t take his responsibilities seriously. And, if he could find a way out of his obligations, he would gladly take it! Big Red Flag...

“Do you enjoy what you do?” What you don’t want to hear is: “I hate my job, my bosses and my coworkers! The whole country is screwed up! The rich get richer, and us poor saps just get poorer! One of these days...I’m going to take what’s mine!”

Bright Red Flag...

The response to a simple question like, “so, how are you?” can give you a lot of clues!

Listen closely to the tone as well as the response...“My day? You don’t even want to know! My shoe heel got caught on the frayed carpet and I stumbled and fell. Then when I went to get the newspaper, the gate was open and the neighbor’s stupid, yapping dog was peeing on it! Now, if that wasn’t enough, I was stopped because my brake light wasn’t working, and the cop had the nerve to say I had a bad attitude! Hell yeah I had an attitude...because of him, I was late to work!...Again!” He refuses to take responsibility for any part of his life. Everything that happened was totally under his control. Blind-as-a-bat-red flag!

Yes, finding true love online is possible! Online and off, people give us clues to who they are. If we choose to ignore the clues, we have no one to blame but ourselves. Don’t let that happen to you. There are quality singles online to fall in love with. Don’t let yourself settle for anything less!