Don’t Play This Online Game - by Vivian Johnson



As I am sure you are aware, lots of games are played on internet dating sites. But there are some games I absolutely refuse to play. I hope you will follow suit:

I don’t play the “dominant/submissive” game. This is where the person you’ve just met online begins to demand things of you. Usually really stupid things. (“Before you go to bed, I want you to email me and tell me exactly what you are wearing to work. Including the underwear.”) or (“I’m going to tell you what I have in the refrigerator. I need you to tell me what you want me to have for dinner. Okay?”) Since I know I’m not interested in the whole “dominant/submissive” game, I refuse to even continue communicating with this person.

I don’t play the “what can you do for me” game. This is when the person is attempting to take on the “online pimp” role. The conversation always leads to what other women are willing to do to be with them. Immediately, I tell them...”this is where I get off. Please do not contact me again.” That’s it.

I don’t play the “life has been so rough on me! I hope you will be the person to make my life worth living!” game. This person is emotionally damaged and needs professional help. I’m not online to rehab people that are emotionally challenged. I suggest they get offline and seek the help they desperately need. All communication stops here...immediately!

I don’t play the “life is one big party!” game. This person lives to party. They do not take life or their responsibilities seriously. They have no problem not showing up for work because they partied all night, the night before! They have missed a couple of car payments so they are parking their car at different places to stall the repo man. They have been given a eviction notice, but none of this has stopped them from partying. They openly brag about how many DUI’s they’ve received. If you are a mature adult, looking for a mature adult relationship, avoid these people at all cost.

Before you become seriously involved with online dating, you need to spot the losers just like you do offline. And once you spot them? Refuse all contact. Ignore the IMs and the emails. Eventually, they will go away. In the mean time, go find the one that is worthy of you...Good luck!

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